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Addiction Recovery, Healing, and Prevention - Notes from Nannette

  • Introduction to Recovery
  • The 12 Steps
    • Steps 1-12
    • Step 1 Honesty
    • Step 2 Hope
    • Step 3 Trust in God
    • Step 4 Truth
    • Step 5 Confession
    • Step 6 Change of Heart
    • Step 7 Humility
    • Step 8 Seeking Forgiveness
    • Step 9 Restitution and Reconciliation
    • Step 10 Daily Accountability
    • Step 11 Personal Revelation
    • Step 12a Spiritual Awakening
    • Step 12b Carrying the Message/Service
    • Step 12c Practice Principles in All Areas of Life
  • Tools of Recovery
    • All Tools
    • The Tool of Meditation
    • The Tool of Participating in Sunday School, Priesthood and Relief Society Meetings
    • The Tool of Gratitude
    • The Tool of Patriarchal Blessings
    • The Tool of Paying Tithes and Offerings
    • The Tool of Personal Scripture Study
    • The Tool of Prayer
    • The Tool of Recovery Meetings
    • The Tool of Sacrament Meeting
    • The Tool of Seeking Support
    • The Tool of Service
    • The Tool of Temple Attendance
    • The Tool of Abstinence
    • The Tool of Writing
  • 12 Step Parenting and Prevention
  • 12 Step Reflections Inspired by…
    • Inspired by Children
    • Inspired by Classic Literature
    • Inspired by Daily Living
    • Inspired by Exercise/Sports
    • Inspired by Holidays and Seasons
    • Inspired by Music
    • Inspired by Nature
    • Inspired by Scripture
    • Inspired by the Family
    • Inspired by the Words of the Prophets
    • Inspired by 12 Step Slogans/Literature

“Later Grandma!” – Step 11

November 18, 2008 by Nannette Wiggins

During lunch one day I was talking to my Granddaughter Sammy (age four) and called her my “sister.” She told me in no uncertain terms that I was not her sister. I started trying to help her understand that in a “Heavenly” context I really was. I was barely into the explanation when she bolted from ... Read More

Filed Under: All Tools, Inspired by Children, Step 11 Personal Revelation

The Danger of Supposing – Step 3 and Step 11

November 17, 2008 by Nannette Wiggins

One of the blessings of the Book of Mormon is the realness of the people. The descriptions of their feelings during challenging times are authentic and can be very instructive. One of my favorite women in scripture is our sister Sariah, the wife of the Prophet Lehi. My experience is certainly not ... Read More

Filed Under: Inspired by Scripture, Step 11 Personal Revelation, Step 3 Trust in God

Likening ALL Scripture Unto Myself – It Takes Courage! – Scripture Study

November 14, 2008 by Nannette Wiggins

One Sunday during the sacrament I prayed about what I might repent of. The answer that came to my mind was prompted directly by my Gospel Doctrine study that week. The prompting I received was that I needed to liken myself unto the “prayerless ponderers” I had just read about in 2 Nephi 32. What ... Read More

Filed Under: Inspired by Scripture, Step 6 Change of Heart, The Tool of Personal Scripture Study

“Ya, But You Wanna Know What!?!?” – Step 8

November 13, 2008 by Nannette Wiggins

When a Grandma is the “honored guest” in the family van there is definitely a science to her placement. She is situated behind the son in law and diagonally behind her daughter for maximum capacity mother daughter chitchat. The youngest child is strategically placed in the captain chair, next to ... Read More

Filed Under: Inspired by Children, Step 8 Seeking Forgiveness

“You’ve Got To Be Kidding Me!” – Carrying the Message To Our Children – Step 12

November 11, 2008 by Nannette Wiggins

My high school grade point average was attacked my tenth grade year by a disastrous experience with Geometry. I spent the summer retaking it, hoping to make up for some of the damage done. The retake helped, but not a lot. Mostly it allowed me to move on. I home schooled my five children through the ... Read More

Filed Under: 12 Step Parenting and Prevention, Inspired by Children, Step 12b Carrying the Message/Service

“That’s Tricky Grandma” – Multitasking or Just Peacefully Do The Next Right Thing – Step 3 and Step 11, Perfectionism

November 10, 2008 by Nannette Wiggins

Multitasking has been the name of my game. My husband lives with it. My kids laugh about it. Now, to my total dismay my grandchildren are discovering it. And frankly, I’d like to recover from it! Cooking and ____, cleaning and ____, sitting in Church and_____, visiting and____, watching TV, the ... Read More

Filed Under: Inspired by Children, Perfectionism, Step 11 Personal Revelation, Step 3 Trust in God

Backseat Driver – Step 6 and Step 11

November 9, 2008 by Nannette Wiggins

According to my dad, I was born with a stubborn streak. When I was a little girl all cars had a bench seat in the front and in the back. There were no seat belts, car seats, air bags, or laws for child safety, so children could place themselves absolutely anywhere in the car. My favorite spot, when ... Read More

Filed Under: Inspired by Children, Step 11 Personal Revelation, Step 6 Change of Heart

“What Was I Thinking?” – Step 10

November 6, 2008 by Nannette Wiggins

In the 5th grade I was given the honorable responsibility of being an official “Bathroom Monitor.” Another girl in my class, Cathy, and I were in charge of “making” all the other girls in the school take good care of the bathroom during lunch. After the school bell rang, indicating that lunch was ... Read More

Filed Under: Inspired by Children, Step 10 Daily Accountability

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